i have the most ridiculous tales of "dating" folks. i use quotes because i've found, as a rule, black people don't date... we kick it, hang out, get bunned up, fuck, smash, have a boo, a shorty, or a jumpoff but WE DON'T DATE.
we don't know how.
as a late-30-something black woman, most of my adult life i have been sans boyfriend and not dating. though i was definitely meeting partners, having sexual relationships and going out. this blog shall tell my stories.