Dating.
Yes, dating. No sex with new men. And I'm using a traditional dating site to aid me in my quest as opposed to my usual raunchy "hookup" site.
I've been doing this for about two months now. Nothing earth shattering to report. Yet.
i have the most ridiculous tales of "dating" folks. i use quotes because i've found, as a rule, black people don't date... we kick it, hang out, get bunned up, fuck, smash, have a boo, a shorty, or a jumpoff but WE DON'T DATE. we don't know how. as a late-30-something black woman, most of my adult life i have been sans boyfriend and not dating. though i was definitely meeting partners, having sexual relationships and going out. this blog shall tell my stories.